Self-Authoring

Let’s begin with the first step of Self-Authoring, which involves identifying your values, beliefs, and goals. This is a process of self-reflection and introspection, so take your time and be honest with yourself. Here are some questions to help you:

1. Values – What are the things that you value most in life? These can be principles, qualities or behaviours that you believe are important. This could include things like integrity, creativity, respect, or family.
2. Beliefs – What are the beliefs that guide your decisions and actions? These are the truths you hold about life, the world, and your place in it. For example, you might believe in the importance of hard work, in the value of education, or in the potential for good in every person.
3. Goals – What are your long-term goals, both personally and professionally? What is the vision you have for your life and career? Don’t limit yourself here. Think about what you really want, not just what you think is possible.

Take your time to ponder over these questions and write down your thoughts. There are no right or wrong answers, only what is true for you. After you’ve identified your values, beliefs, and goals, we can move onto the next step of aligning these with your career.

Thank you for sharing such insightful responses. It’s clear that family, financial stability, and having creative fulfillment are important to you.

With these values and goals in mind, the next step is to take a closer look at your current job situation and see how well it aligns with these core aspects of your life.

1. Job Satisfaction: Are you currently fulfilled in your job, particularly in terms of creativity? If not, what are the areas you would like to change?
2. Financial Stability: Does your current job offer the financial security you need for your personal goals like owning a house and going on a vacation?
3. Work-Life Balance: Does your current job allow you to spend quality time with your family?

Keep in mind that the goal here is to determine how closely your current job aligns with your personal values and goals. From there, we can determine what changes, if any, would be beneficial for you to make.

Please take some time to think about these questions and share your responses when you are ready.

Thank you for your honesty. It sounds like there are a couple of key areas we need to address.

1. Job Satisfaction: From what you’ve said, it seems like gaining a role with more creative input and involvement in management would give you greater career satisfaction. Perhaps you could consider roles within your current company, or elsewhere, that would allow you to use and develop these skills. Alternatively, you could discuss with your current manager about opportunities for professional growth and upskilling within your current role.
2. Financial Stability: This seems to be a pressing issue. Would you be open to exploring new job opportunities that could offer a higher income? Alternatively, are there opportunities within your current role for a salary increase, such as taking on more responsibilities or upskilling? You might also benefit from creating a comprehensive budget planning to help manage your finances better.

Remember, the goal of self-authoring is to help you align your work with your personal values and goals. This process might involve making changes and stepping out of your comfort zone, but it’s an important step in creating a career – and a life – that truly satisfies you.

Are you ready to take the next steps in this journey?

Fantastic! Let’s move forward.

Now that we’ve identified areas that need improvement, we can start formulating a plan of action.

1. Enhancing Job Satisfaction: You mentioned that you would like to be more involved in management and updating processes. It would be beneficial to research and identify any skills or qualifications that could help you in this endeavor. Look into courses or workshops that could improve your management skills. Additionally, consider having a conversation with your current superior about your aspirations and ask for opportunities for growth within your current position.
2. Addressing Financial Stability: If your current job does not provide the financial stability you need, consider exploring new job opportunities. Look for roles that align with your career aspirations and offer better financial compensation. There are numerous job search platforms that you can utilize for this. Additionally, consider getting professional advice about your finances. This could help you create a budget or savings plan that could support your goal of home ownership and vacations.

Remember, these changes won’t happen overnight. It will take time and effort, but by persistently working towards your goals, you can make them a reality. Make sure to celebrate small victories along the way and keep your ultimate goals in sight.

Is there anything specific you need support with as you embark on this journey?

Absolutely, I’d be glad to help you with that.

Creating a budget can be a hugely beneficial step towards gaining control over your finances. Here are some steps to help you create a budget:

1. Identify Income: The first step in creating a budget is to identify all sources of income. This could be from your job, any side hustles, investments, etc.
2. List Expenses: Make a list of all your monthly expenses. These could include rent/mortgage, utilities, groceries, transport, insurance, etc. Don’t forget to include less frequent expenses, like annual insurance premiums or car maintenance costs.
3. Compare Income and Expenses: Once you’ve got this information, compare your total income to your total expenses. If your expenses are higher than your income, then you’ll need to either find ways to increase your income or reduce your expenses.
4. Set Saving Goals: Set a realistic monthly saving goal. This could be for your house or holiday fund.
5. Monitor Your Budget: Regularly review your budget to make sure you’re sticking to it. It’s okay if you need to make adjustments from time to time.

As for saving:

1. Pay Yourself First: Treat savings as a non-negotiable expense. As soon as you get paid, put a portion of your income straight into your savings account.
2. Use Automatic Transfers: To make saving easier, set up automatic transfers to your savings account.
3. Save on Non-Essential Expenses: Look for areas where you can cut back on spending. This could be eating out less, cancelling unused subscriptions, or shopping for deals.
4. Save Windfalls: Whenever you receive unexpected money, like a bonus or tax refund, put it straight into savings.

Remember, building a budget and saving takes time and discipline. It may seem tough at first, but stick with it and you’ll start to see progress.